princezz so confused plz help

princessofhiphop · #1 06-24-2007, 12:13 AM

hey everybody i am soooo confused im luukin for sum advice tho sooo if ur willin im listenin!
look man me and my daughters father are haveing problems hes the one i have written about in my poems. and the pain dat i am feelin is very very badd!!! hes wantein to see his daughter but for the last almost 4 months hes been dissing her and not claiming her he calls and we argue he cumes over and we argue and im sik too my stomach my daughter is sick but shes okay! thank god but its just so much im sorry for draggin yall into it but im sooo sad....

xoxox
princess

Kween Katz · #2 06-24-2007, 11:17 AM

We'll if he is the father he should be man enough to claim her, i mean not tryin to be rude but you both made her, therefore both need to take responsibilty over her and if he doesnt claim her than thats his problem cuz he's missing out on a beautiful daughter and if you two keep arguing it wont sort anything out, you need to both just talk it out, its your daughter you're talking about here, you two cant keep on arguing, try making an arrangement so that he gets to see your daughter too, i dunno really. but arguing wont solve it.

Laker · #3 06-24-2007, 01:48 PM

She's got some points above but I don't really wanna say to much because I don't wanna influence any decision too much, so i'll just agree with what Krys said above and leave it at that.

princessofhiphop · #4 06-24-2007, 03:32 PM

yeah i see what you both are saying i mean everytime we argue it really doesn't solve anything and i have no problem with him seeing her but its just in the past he did'nt so why wuld he now wat wuld make him change his mind? but thnx u guys

MissyA · #5 06-25-2007, 09:50 AM

yeah i see what you both are saying i mean everytime we argue it really doesn't solve anything and i have no problem with him seeing her but its just in the past he did'nt so why wuld he now wat wuld make him change his mind? but thnx u guys

u're right when u say that he has the right to see his daughter and it's super that u don't have any problems with that. u said that u don't know why he would change his mind. maybe he was thinkin' of the mistakes he did and now he wants to make it up, i dunno. as Laker said, i niether want to influence on ur choises, but u should do what u think it's best for ur daughter. i thi8nk it's fair that ur daughter has both parents, when she's able to have them, ya know... so, i would let him to see his child once o twice a week, but... i dunno... i wouldn't let the child sleep by him, ya know... anyway, do what u want... what u think it's best for both u and ur daughter... love ya... if i can help ANYHOW, just let me know, ok? love ya... see ya... byeeeee i'm there for u...

Laker · #6 06-25-2007, 11:50 AM

I just wanna add that it doesn't matter how many people tell you to do a certain thing because it's only you who really knows what you want to do.

Endivisual · #7 06-25-2007, 12:51 PM

oh shit i had no idea you had a kid ... umm... well you gotta be straight up with him how he's not doing what he's supposed to do. he got you pregnant n' all that so he's gotta take his responsibilities of being a good father.

i pretty much agree with everything that ms. laker said ... good luck to ya

princessofhiphop · #8 06-25-2007, 09:58 PM

THNX GUYS I REALLY APPRECIATE THAT!!! AND MiSSA THANK U!!!! U GUYS ARE A BiiiiiiiiiG HELP SO WiSH ME LUCK CUZ i PLAN ON TALKiN TO HiM TOnITE

{|Mario|} · #9 06-25-2007, 10:19 PM

Sorry to hear that. I didn't know you had a kid too. Good luck with your child and be careful from the father. Is he still asking for your daughter or is he leaving you alone a bit?

princessofhiphop · #10 06-25-2007, 10:21 PM

thank u. yeah alot of ppl didn't know i posted it up here a while bak. but hes still asking ya know and we plan on talking cuz i have no problem wit him seeing her ya kno